Left speechless… TWICE!

Sunday, October 16, 2011

21:21

Yea this weekend truly has been something else hey. I've been left speechless twice this weekend and that rarely happens. It's like lightning hitting twice in the same place, scientifically implausible. And it was by the same person! That's where the weirdness lies.

So I found myself in the bath yesterday(saturday) morning, soap in my eyes and all. Guess what happens?! My phone decides to ring! Lol.. Like who calls a person at 7 in the morning on a Saturday? But I knew exactly who it was. I put that ringtone for a reason a few months ago. Not sure why I haven't yet removed it though. Anyway so here I am scrambling to find my phone with soap in my eyes and I finally get to it and answer. So he just called  me to say he finally gets it. He gets why I believe in him so much. That conversation went on for like 15 minutes or so and at some point I had no idea what to say. Like really I sat there, in the bath water(managed to wash the soap from my eyes while on the phone, superwoman tendencies Lol), and was left speechless at some of the things he was saying to me. When phones were finally hung up, Aiko started kicking as if she knew who had been on the phone. But I literally sat there in the bath, in shock! Like literally if it wasn't for the routine of finishing to bath and getting dressed, I probably would have sat there for like an hour trying to absorb it.

Well I seemingly managed to put it out of my mind. I mean a girl had to focus on shopping! Lol.. I guess they are right when they say, retail therapy works! Sadly I wasn't shopping for me but for the baby. That was fun though. Ok so here I was in the middle of Mr Price Home, trying to pick out which blanket would work best for Aiko when my phone rings again. Yep same ringtone as before. Already I was in too good a mood to not answer and the conversation from that morning truly didn't register. I answered the phone. That conversation I will have to admit went on for almost an hour. An hour that I was still shopping I might add. So here's Melissa pushing a trolley with a phone attached to her ear and picking out thing for baby. That's a sight I tell you. I hit the till and I'm still on the phone. I walk to the elevator, get in and get to the next store, and I'M STILL ON THE PHONE! I got what I needed to get in Checkers Hyper and I'm there for a while hey. While I'm in the store I get another call. I put one on hold to answer the other and once that is over I'm back to my first call. Ok so there I was in the baby aisle and he said something that completely knocked the wind from my lungs. Like I didn't know what to do with myself. Yep speechless moment number 2! And he noticed it. He knows I always usually got something to say but that? No that I had no response for!

Even after I hung up the phone 20 minutes later, that conversation was ringing in my head but I couldn't dwell on it because I literally had to get home, drop my bags and leave again. Went to meet up with an old friend. Literally haven't seen him in 2 and a half years. What's weirder bout it though is that 2, yes I said TWO, people thought and asked me if he was the baby's father. Lol.. That was weird. Apparently he and I get along so well they thought he was the baby's dad. Funny when I think bout it. So when I got home, I brewed over what had happened with the ex that day and it still makes no sense what happened. No sense at all actually and I won't try to make sense of it either. I'm just going to let it be…

Weirder of it all I that I had no problem having a conversation with him. That's how easy it was for me. It felt NORMAL! I swear i'm crazy, no really, I am.